September 2008


Today, I thought about how to bring peace in this world. So, this is what I found out.

Human beings are tightly linked to each other; they are all the same inside. Hence, humanity forms a cirlce. In my opinion, even their psyche/thoughts are linked. So, if one person initiates an act of hatred, it can go around and a cycle of hatred will be created. And if one person passes on one single good selfless act, it will automatically be passed around in a cycle of goodness. I mean if one makes life easy on one person, then this person will make life easy on another person and so on. So good deeds circulate automatically as do bad deeds. So, if one person fights oppression and injustice, that effect goes around and is automatically spread out. This is like a domino effect.  Hence, more people join the cause.

I hope the above made sense. :-)

“And whoever saves a life it is as though he had saved the lives of all mankind” Quran (5:32)

“Do not let your hatred of a people incite you to aggression” Quran (5:2)

“And do not let ill-will towards any folk incite you so that you swerve from dealing justly. Be just; that is nearest to heedfulness” Quran (5:8)

“Cooperate with one another for virtue and heedfulness and do not cooperate with one another for the purpose of vice and aggression” Quran (5:2)
 

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Kind Regards

Kindly view this video. It contains informative straight-forward discussion about whether Jesus was God or not.  I would invite all my Christian brothers and sisters to view this video. Islam teaches us that Jesus (peace be upon him) was a messenger of God just like Moses (pbuh), Abraham (pbuh) and Mohammad (pbuh). In this video a former Youth Christian Minister, who reverted to Islam some years ago, discusses why Jesus (pbuh) cannot be God.  

Oh, personally, I found this video I bit commercialized, which is kind of disgusting; but listening to this former Minister speak was worth it.

Kindly watch.

Peace and Blessings Everyone

Today, I had “brainy adventures” at LAC Art Gallery.  They have amazing material on display this time. I am going to mention some work that particularly caught my attention.

1-”Fleeting” by Karen Darling

This painting was one of my favourites. I see an outline of a woman sitting on a seat. Almost half of her body and face is painted in white, the rest is in orange and brown.  She is sitting there so demurely; and there is this strong sense of passing of time and age. The background also added to this sense of passage. The picture draws you in for some reason. Great work Karen.

2-”Into the Distance” by Karen Darling

Another acrylic painting. I see the back of a lady sitting on a beach. I do not see her face and I get this strong sense that she is waiting for someone/something, looking into the distance. Perhaps, it was the way she was reclining, the angle of her neck and her hand, maybe it was the way the rest of the images were drawn around her, that produced that effect of “looking into the distance”. Marvelous. 

3-There were different kinds of round stones made via pottery. I did not catch the name of the artist. But these were so awesome. Different colors and different textures and designs. Oh, these were just sitting in a row of three, which did not strike me as particular. I wonder if a proper spatial arrangement would have added a stronger concept to this work of art?

4-Oh this one was amazing. Again did not catch the name of the artist. There were four black and white pictures of women from Brazil,China, India and Ireland. The concept was to represent women as a tribe. So beautiful! 

5-Then the metal wire man/woman. There is this figure constructed out of metal wires. It is holding a huge round ball made out of metal wire and on that ball, right next to this figure’s hand, sits a smaller figure. Perhaps this smaller figure is a replica of this bigger figure. I think the concept was to think outside the box, to think big and to think creatively. But the artist wrote that the concept was to realize that every action has a consequence. I guess each art may have multiple interpretations. 

6-”Roads not Taken”. I so should have jotted down the name of this artist. This artwork comprised of a hand-woven fabric made up of vibrant shades of red, maroon and blue. There were distinct lines of fabric running through it, almost like roads. The artist had written that it was a tribute to one’s choices and decisions. Splendidly delightful!

7-”Regeneration”. One of my favouites but I was too lazy to jot down the name of the artist. My bad! This artwork comprised of a bark of the cedar tree into which the artist had carved a glass staircase and some glass cones containing a bit of copper inside them. These glass cones looked like flowers. I think the staircase represented evolution. The artist wrote that the concept was interaction between organic and synthesis. I think he/she is trying to exhibit how mankind has evolved over the ages and how organic and synthetic material are so tightly intervowen nowadays. To me, this piece also said how harmony can be established in nature despite differences. Just like glass and cedar tree are together, human beings from different cultures, religions, races etc. can work together in harmony as well. It was so beautiful. <starry eyes>

8-The last artwork that I loved was done by Grade 5 students. It was comprised of four peculiar paper-mache masks. Each had a distinct name, distinct features and very vibrant colours. I was so taken by how queer-looking the masks were that my brain stopped functioning properly and I did not understand the concept behind it. 

9-So, I moved on from the masks. I mean “who needs masks when one can be oneself”. As I looked at another piece of art, I thought of sitting at this yellow stool. Sigh! I need some rest. Seconds before casually seating myself on the stool, like a princess and taking that well-deserved 3 minute break, I realized that it was yet another artwork. Hahahaha! It had three important colors of the rainbow-red, blue and yellow. I think it represented concreteness, the concept of being rooted, immersed. I guess that’s what it means. 

I must comment that out of all these pieces, Karen’s work was most intriguing. She somehow adds that strong atmosphere to her paintings so that the viewer is not just just looking but is being part of the actual painting. I so had this feeling of being transported into the picture, into some other dimension. Amazing!

This exhibition, “Figuratively Speaking” lasts till Nov-02-08. Its open Tuesday thru Saturdays, 10 am till 4 pm. Then on Sundays, 1 till 4 pm and closed on Mondays.

If you have time, do visit. 

Lastly, I must mention a wonderful quote by Robin Hollingdrake. 

Talent is given, and there’s not a moment to waste, to believe it. to accept it and to make something of this life. Art doesn’t care where you begin, and it’s a series of new beginnings, that can have surprise endings. 

Later days

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Kind Regards

This is such a profound story. I remember reading it when I was a child. Today, when I saw it again, I realized the meaning behind it with even more depth.  Kindly view and make a difference now by participating with an appropriate organization such as Peel Poverty Action Group.

Peace and Blessings Everyone

Today, I had a bit of an argument with my younger sister over an Islamic concept. She left the room in frustration. I lied on my bed just thinking why I aggravated her. After a bit of thinking, I realized that I need to change my attitude on how to approach certain touchy Islamic issues. I mean the bottom line is “For you is your belief, for me is mine“, so there should not be any heated debates but only positive ones.

So, after talking to my sister a bit more, a bit of brainstorming and a bit of prayer, we came up with a self-improvement strategy.  This is supposed to be a two-buddy system since its been scientifically proven that learning is done best in groups of twos only.  This is how this two-buddy system will work, God willing (inshaAllah).

Strategy:

Each individual must identify some key areas she/he wishes to improve on. Then, one has to research a hadith and a Quranic verse regarding that issue. The idea is to come to an understanding on how to handle such issues from an Islamic viewpoint. One may of course, add literature from a communication course one took or some psychology course one took to prove one’s point. It is also possible to watch a relevant islamic video.

Some examples of areas of improvement are:

1-Communicating properly with one’s parents

2-Listening well

3-Correct intentions in implementing a task/sharing knowledge

4-Backbiting

5-Talking aimlessly

6-Thinking positively in difficult times

7-Influencing others

8-Procastination

9-Distractions during prayer

10-Pursuit of Cleanliness

11-Handling Arrogance

So, its possible to divide this up so that one person studies and shares what he/she wishes to improve on; then after 2-3 days, the other person studies and shares what he/she wishes to improve on. This way each individual would come to an understanding on how to improve something he/she is weak in while sharing that knowledge with his/her buddy/(ies)

Expected Results:

1-Love of Allah (God) and his Prophet Mohammad (peace be upon him)

2-Development of sisterly/brotherly bonds

3-Self Improvement

Happy Ramadhan!

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Peace and Blessings

Today, I questioned myself as to how exactly its possible for parents to cross the generation gap? There are times when parents expect things from their children and there are times when they give this really strict advice. ”Resolve this situation via procedure A because I have done so when encountered with similar situation.  This is the best solution.”

So, I thought about this. There are times when the children/grown up kid  ;-)  have different set of experiences than the parents. The parents then make this really bad mistake of analyzing their child’s life through the lens they analyzed their life.  And then they tell you this and that and expect you to listen to them and obey them. Sometimes their advice is good and sometimes its bad. So, when the child/adult progeny decides not to listen and do what his/her heart tells him/her to do, then parents freak out and say “Oh my God! he/she is not listening to us. What are we going to do with him/her? God forbid! This is a crisis.” 

Now these parents are forgetting something really important. First of all, every one individual in this world is distinct, has his/her own set of experiences and hence are bound to react to/understand different situations differently. Secondly, once a child grows up, he/she is a sound adult with his/her opinion. Following the parents around on each and every thing may not be healthy enough for his/her personal growth and maturation. Prophet Mohammad (peace be upon him) advised the parents that when a child grows up, then be his/her friend. Now many parents know/acknowledge the Islamic way of obedience and kindness towards the parents but they do not know/acknowledge the idea that once their kids grow up they have to start treating them differently–like a friend. When I sit with my friend, I advice her. I do not expect her to follow what I just told her. There are no expectations, just a simple understanding. She listens to me, I listen to her. I may act on her advice if I feel to and vice versa. That is how a parent should relate to their grown up children-as friends. 

I think a lot of grown up, adult “children” ;-) will feel less frustration and less anger welling up inside if their parents treated them “as an intelligent individual with a sound mind who is capable of making responsible decisions” instead of “a man/woman who is still a child no matter how old he/she becomes”.

Saying that, this is my advice to the grown up “children” ;-) :

Parents do have a wealth of knowledge and taking their advice on matters is best. But remember to take advice from friends too and do your own research. Then do what your heart/findings tells you. Because you are a mature adult now and hence are responsible for growing yourself properly. But remember to be forgiving towards everyone and yourself. You will learn that growing oneself while interacting with the rest of the world is a very challenging deed indeed. 

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These guys make me laugh so much. LOL 

So, today I read about the inheritance law in Islam. Apparently, boys get twice the share of the daughters. So, my obvious question was why this is the case?  Its simple. Men’s primary role is to take care of the wife and the children. So, they get two times more inheritance than that of a woman. Women are still getting a very generous sum of inheritance since they are not required to spend their money/assets on their family before or after marriage. They can keep that money to themselves and invest/use it as they like.  Now, someone might question that why cannot women be in charge of the household? Well, its because men do not get pregnant and go into labor. :-) I cannot imagine a woman struggling to make ends meet while being pregnant. It will be simply brutal to expect that. Also, men do not menstruate. Sometimes, menstruation can be painful and women might want to take a day or two off from work or school. Men do not need to worry about this aspect either. Hence, due to their biological constitutions, each is given a role in the family in order to run it smoothly and with harmony and the inheritance law merely complement that role. It’s simple.

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So, after my adventures at MuslimFest, I felt drawn towards Arts.  Perhaps doing some workshops at Living Arts Centre is not a bad idea at all. I googled some videos at Youtube. Check them out. 

Subhannallah (praise to God)